Wiki’s definition of a game is "a structured activity usually undertaken for enjoyment and sometimes also used as an educational tool. Key components of games are goals, rules, challenge, and interactivity. Games generally involve mental or physical stimulation, and often both. Many games help develop practical skills, serve as a form of exercise, or otherwise perform an educational, simulational or psychological role. Games are a universal part of human experience and present in all cultures."
Think about the game of hockey for example.
It is a team sport, the more goals you make the better. Sometimes you win, sometimes you loose. Haven’t we been told or tell our kids, it’s how you play the game that counts. When you win, the entire team feels very proud of themselves, but it depends on "how" you win. When you lose, you might feel bad, but you get over it and try better next time. Games where you slaughter the other team are not much fun at all.
However, if you’re my nine-year-old nephew Jesse you might look at it a different way. Jesse was the goalie for his hockey team during a tournament. When the tournament was over, his mom asked what was his favorite game? Totally unexpectedly he said, “The one we lost 14 to 1”. She said, “Really? Why” He smiled proudly and said, “Because I made 56 saves in that game!” Now that is a positive attitude!
Baseball is another example. Sometimes you hit a home run, sometimes you score one base at a time, and sometimes you strike out. The pitcher makes every attempt to strike you out, and the basemen are trying to put you out, but you continue to do your best.
Then there’s Tennis, there’s a lot of love in tennis.
Life is also like that. It takes a team. You can’t do it on your own or you would be the only person here on earth. You should always strive to reach your goals and make your dreams come true. Like hockey, baseball or tennis, sometimes you win, sometimes you lose, there are always ups and downs and challenges, but you continue to improve your skills. It’s your attitude during these times that makes the difference.
When you do win it is gratifying, the more goals you can achieve the more successful you are. You feel proud of your accomplishments. But sometimes you lose. You can let the losses get you down, or you can learn from them and grow.
It is your decision how you play this game called “life”. Do you want to sit on the bench, on the sidelines or in the dug out? Do you want to watch it go by as if on a TV screen? Do you want to be a spectator or a player? Choosing to participate, be a team player, set goals, and be grateful for the wins and the loses, scores a life that’s rosey.
Enjoy the game!